Wow some wild responses on here about killing…WTF?
All I know is I worry about my soul first then my wife and kids then my own survival, killing granny is just plain sick, evil…etc

As far as family members go if they think your wrong now they will have an instant attitude adjustment once a situation arises.
My own point of view is if they show up fine but everyone who can, will contribute or they are out. In my case anyone who is in range to show up would have skills to contribute and thankfully may be bringing their own stockpile as well. Luckily over the years I have rubbed off on mine and my wife’s family members so my place would simply be the furthest from the city or smaller urban centers and a likely gathering point if need be.

Just remember if you make a decision and cant live with yourself afterwords for making it...was it worth it?

"State a moral case to a ploughman & a professor. The former will decide it as well, & often better than the latter,
because he has not been led astray by artificial rules."