So in essence, this was a custody battle with the in-laws, and who knows what strings they can pull to get their way in the situation.

I think maybe we need to back out of this one a bit. I register Libertarian, but the fact of the matter is, I will not let dope-heads be the main cause of any action on our part. I think pot should be legalized and is not that much of an issue, but if someone pushed the edge of acceptability on how casual their use has been, then guess what, they found the edge of it. Your chances of being declared an unfit parent can also tied into constant alcohol consumption too.