Thanks Folcwine and everyone who PMed me. My wife is looking to finish education to become a naturapathic physician and Bastyr University is supposed to be the best school in the nation for that. I'm hesitant to give up the good setup I've got here but I'm starting to see that I can't put life on hold or it may just pass me by.

I'm not expecting to search out a unit and join. At least not right away. I'm way more comfortable with men I've know for a long time and who I trust 100% with my life and family. I am, however, really interested in getting plugged into the truly free market immediately. From there I expect to meet some people with whom I can build relationships...

If anyone else has some info/advise please feel free to PM me - I don't want to clog up the thread.